“You Don’t Own Me” – A Song That Broke Boundaries in the Male-Dominated ’60s

“You Don’t Own Me” quickly became one of the boldest and most defiant songs of its era. Written by John Madara and David White, the song’s lyrics were a powerful declaration of female autonomy, challenging the traditional roles expected of women — especially in relationships.

Coming at a time when most girl-group songs focused on pining for boys or heartbreak, this track stood out. Lesley’s delivery is firm yet emotional, her voice rising above the lush orchestration to deliver a simple, unshakable message: “Don’t tell me what to do. Don’t tell me what to say.” It reached #2 on the Billboard Hot 100, held back only by The Beatles’ “I Want to Hold Your Hand.”

“You Don’t Own Me” is now seen as a pioneering feminist anthem — featured in films, covered by artists like Grace and Joan Jett, and used in women’s rights campaigns for decades.

You Don’t Own Me

Lesley Gore recorded this song at 17 years old, yet it became one of the most empowering female anthems of the 20th century.

The song was nearly shelved by the label, who feared it was “too adult” for Gore’s teen audience.

It reached #2 on the Billboard Hot 100, only kept from #1 by The Beatles’ first U.S. smash.

“You Don’t Own Me” was used in the 2015 film Suicide Squad, covered by Grace ft. G-Eazy, bringing it to a new generation.

Gore later came out as a lesbian and became a strong advocate for LGBTQ+ rights — making the message of this song even more personal and powerful.

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